by Andrew Gee
The following article is one of a series of articles which focus on Self Improvement, Motivation and Empowerment. It is based on research done over twenty years as a personal and business coach. This self improvement article was written in response to questions which have been asked on losing weight and long term weight loss as well as try to address common challenges that people have with this subject. I sincerely hope that you find the following information of value.
10 Things to avoid when trying to lose weight
Trying to lose weight is not always easy. I know. In fact, it can prove a tough challenge for many people. So here's a little guide to avoiding things that could make you lose control and start eating. Avoid them like the plague if you wish to succeed.
1. Please don't rush into the toughest diet you can find. This is a common mistake. Many people decide in a moment of desperation to follow a super-strict diet and fail. Don't rush into a diet that may be too strict for you. If you don't have any dieting experience and are not 100 percent sure you can stick with the diet, then choose something else.
2. Don't lose touch with reality. You can't realistically expect things to happen over night. When choosing your goal, start small, but be prepared to go the distance. If you hear someone saying that he/she lost a large number of pounds in a short time, don't make it your goal to match their performance. We are all different, our bodies are unique and diet results are going to vary from one person to another.
3. Don't go to the gym too often Another common mistake is to use the enthusiasm of the first days to hit the gym every day. This won't help you at all. Your body needs time to heal and expand the muscle mass after each training session and going to the gym every day interferes with this natural process. Apart from the risk of doing some serious damage, especially if unsupervised, a week of non-stop training could never offset ten or twenty years of an exercise free lifestyle.
4. Don't get hard on calories. We all know that cutting down on calories is one of the building blocks of trying to lose weight, but you have to be careful about it. Cut down on too many calories and your body will start storing anything it possibly can. This is not a good way to lose weight.
5. Don't skip meals. Some people think that skipping one or two meals could help them lose weight faster. They don't understand that dieting is all about eating the right foods and not starving yourself.
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When it comes to the subject of self improvement, I fully understand (through my own experiences) that it is a lot easier said than done. However, you are here, right now, because you have a desire to improve your self or you are at least interested in this subject. Perhaps you are reading this to help a friend or colleague - great. If this article helps you or you help a friend, paying it forward is what lif'e all about so we all win.
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6. Don't check the bathroom scales everyday. Everybody is eager to see the confirmation of his or her efforts in the shape of lost pounds, but you should not let this drive you to checking your weight everyday. The daily fluctuations of your weight will soon have you depressed and ready to quit dieting. It is vital that we think of it in terms of 'long term weight loss'.
7. Don't let emotions drive you. Apart from the eagerness that drives people to check their weight every day, there are other emotions that influence dieting. If you know you're used to reaching out for ice-cream or snacks when you are bored, frustrated or angry, then you should deal with these issues and not allow them to come between you and your purpose.
8. Don't refuse to seek help. Not everyone was born with an iron will and nerves of steel. If you need advice or help, don't hesitate to ask it from your friends or from professionals. Don't try to solve all problems by yourself. Lots of us are faced with this same challenge. I have found that having a 'buddy' works wonders.
9. Don't deny yourself your favourite foods. Treats are a great way of raising your willpower and determination. Diets are just food control methods, not prisons. So what if you eat something forbidden once in a while, especially if that food is a favourite of yours? If such treats are not frequent, then they will make no difference in the long run. Deny yourself completely and you can seriously affect your determination and resolve.
10. Don't rely on your willpower alone Use your head as well. If you wish to know how much you eat, then write everything down and analyze the list for things that should not be there. Sometimes hunger creeps up on you and makes you eat something you shouldn't. Be honest with yourself and keep a clear head.
NOW is the time!
O.K. you have read the article. Now is the time for action. Without action, this article adds no value whatsoever to your self improvement. But remember, without action, you cannot blame this self improvement article or any article for that matter. So, take action NOW.
Even if only one piece of advice, one piece of information, one tip makes a difference, then the whole article has been worth it for all of us. NOW is the time!
Be the person you want to be, you deserve it!
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